<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post8964391083612426663..comments</id><updated>2008-02-28T21:50:33.849Z</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Bite by bite eats the elephant....: You're not the only one</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/feeds/8964391083612426663/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html'/><author><name>Kate.Kingsley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02382512850730256227</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-4383119459360128296</id><published>2008-02-28T21:50:00.000Z</published><updated>2008-02-28T21:50:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>One priceless comment I received was "you should b...</title><content type='html'>One priceless comment I received was "you should be getting on with making a new baby"...just days after everything started wrong.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I'm not yet in the league of the proper writer, but would urge you to send it in...it struck a cord with me. Sometimes knowing that you are not the only one is no consolation at all.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Thanks for visiting my blog. Hope to see you again.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Kelly</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/4383119459360128296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/4383119459360128296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html?showComment=1204235400000#c4383119459360128296' title=''/><author><name>Kelly</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145699000960809495</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-8964391083612426663' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/posts/default/8964391083612426663' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-4528781956846734353</id><published>2008-02-28T13:51:00.000Z</published><updated>2008-02-28T13:51:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Thank you so much for your comments. I've chomped ...</title><content type='html'>Thank you so much for your comments. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I've chomped down on the bullet and submitted it (why does submitting always turn my stomach to water?) so fingers crossed. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I think i was feeling rather defensive when I wrote it, JJ. Now that I'm through the initial rawness I seem to be entering the "why me?/It's not fair!!" phase. I started a thread to this effect on a miscarriage form, and was inundated with responses, so I'm really hoping that it does reassure others that they're not the only one. &lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;:-)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/4528781956846734353'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/4528781956846734353'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html?showComment=1204206660000#c4528781956846734353' title=''/><author><name>Kate.Kingsley</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02382512850730256227</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09376212936171960157'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-8964391083612426663' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/posts/default/8964391083612426663' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-2014783661518010243</id><published>2008-02-25T21:28:00.000Z</published><updated>2008-02-25T21:28:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>It's tight. It oozes emotion and the last two line...</title><content type='html'>It's tight. It oozes emotion and the last two lines are perfect.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;Remeber to get it in before the deadline:-)&lt;BR/&gt;x</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/2014783661518010243'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/2014783661518010243'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html?showComment=1203974880000#c2014783661518010243' title=''/><author><name>Lane</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08147122748453850264</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-8964391083612426663' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/posts/default/8964391083612426663' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-7565845121582463065</id><published>2008-02-25T14:41:00.000Z</published><updated>2008-02-25T14:41:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>Oh Kate, reading this made me feel all tearful. Wi...</title><content type='html'>Oh Kate, reading this made me feel all tearful. Wish I could give you a hug.&lt;BR/&gt;Send it in, it's a moving piece of writing. &lt;BR/&gt;xxx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/7565845121582463065'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/7565845121582463065'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html?showComment=1203950460000#c7565845121582463065' title=''/><author><name>Lucy Diamond</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11831060852859704680</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-8964391083612426663' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/posts/default/8964391083612426663' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-2377408968969434923</id><published>2008-02-21T15:43:00.000Z</published><updated>2008-02-21T15:43:00.000Z</updated><title type='text'>With all the wonderful words in our language, why,...</title><content type='html'>With all the wonderful words in our language, why, sometimes, can we not find the right ones?&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;I liked this. A little defensive, maybe, but that's your right, and I think demonstrates just how you feel.&lt;BR/&gt;&lt;BR/&gt;JJx</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/2377408968969434923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/8964391083612426663/comments/default/2377408968969434923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html?showComment=1203608580000#c2377408968969434923' title=''/><author><name>JJ</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00640209636605410939</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='16198956314315722292'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://thedeadbeatsnovelinprogress.blogspot.com/2008/02/youre-not-only-one.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33225158.post-8964391083612426663' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33225158/posts/default/8964391083612426663' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>